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Leadership is a decision

July 14, 2008 · Leave a Comment

Today is the first day of the 4-day long 10th Asia-Pacific Conference on Giftedness @ NTU/NIE.

 

The opening keynote address titled “Teaching for Leadership” was delivered by Prof. Robert Sternberg, a renowned psychologist on intelligence and creativity.

 

Why on earth do we need to teach leadership, you may ask? He explained that we ought to teach for leadership to satisfy the world’s need for great leaders and to imbue a sense of ethics in the students of today – something which is apparently lacking in many youths today. He related his experience of presenting an unethical situation in a narrative to his students who surprisingly did not pick up on the unethical behaviour. Hence, no matter how much one studies, or how good a school one goes to, leadership encompasses more than the traditional notion of intelligence… 

 

 In his keynote, he claimed that students of today aren’t acquiring the necessary (and comprehensive) skills they need to become leaders, primarily because traditional teaching tends to “shine the spotlight” on a select few almost all the time (primarily the memory learners and those who do well on achievement tests) and almost none on the rest who may be gifted in non-traditional ways (especially students who are stronger in other kinds of skills such as analytical, creative, practical, or wisdom-based skills). However, he noted that “students who are not placed in an optimal position to achieve may be just as able to achieve at high levels as the students placed in a position to achieve. Moreover, the advantaged students will not necessarily be more successful later in life.”

 

Hence, there exist a partial disconnection between traditional achievement testing and achievement in the real world, for which we should teach in a way to meet all of these needs of virtually all students – those gifted in the traditional way, as well as those gifted in the non-traditional way. Based on his WISC model (Wisdom, Intelligence, Creativity Synthesized), he argued that success in life requires creative, practical and wisdom-based skills as much as it requires memory and analytical skills – and these can be taught.

Nevertheless, those aside, what intrigued me the most was the first point he made about taking on a leadership position. He defined leadership as “making a positive, meaningful, and enduring difference to the world, at some level” and he argued that one becomes a leader by

(1) deciding for leadership and

(2) developing one’s academic and practical intelligence, creativity and wisdom.

 

In a nutshell, leadership isn’t an innate characteristic. Of course, there are individual differences, he said, but they can be compensated extrinsically to allow all individuals to progress from their baselines to achieve more than what they can without any guidance.

 

 

 

Leadership is a DECISION. When one decides to become a leader, he or she will enact the role of being a leader and eventually, one internalises and truly becomes a leader. That was how he managed to take up the president position of the American Psychological Association (APA) years back=p Well, that’s true to a certain extent, but whether one becomes a GOOD leader probably depends on how well he or she utilises the academic and practical intelligence, creativity and wisdom to the best of ability to lead and rise above the rise.

 

 

 

 

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WAFF – 13 July 2008

July 11, 2008 · Leave a Comment

WAFF TV Ad

WHEN & WHERE?
*scape Youth Park on 13th July 2008,

WAFF’s UP?
Under the theme ‘Summer Magic’, the carnival will blend with the summer season and exude a warm and imaginative ambience. It will kick off with activities that are high-spirited and gradually progress towards a relaxed and magical mood as evening approaches.

- Rock and Percussion Bands
- Acapella Performances
- Choral Performances
- Modern dance and Hip-hop
- Mobile mascots and buskers
- Carnival stalls manned by student participants selling delectable food and other wares

To purchase WAFF: The Carnival coupons,
email us at waffsg@gmail .com or visit our website http://uspwaff.go.cc for more information.

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“My bargaining power was that I just didn’t care.”

July 11, 2008 · 1 Comment

That was why Philip Yeo, the Spring Singapore Chief (or the former A*STAR and Economic Development Board chairman), did not fear being fired when he broke rules in the civil service. He understands the power of rule-breaking if done in the right spirit. Apparently, he does it “to improve the system”.

 

One point that Mr Yeo made which I totally agree with is that

people who break the rules should be praised.

 

He said: “In Singapore, we spend our time praising people who follow the rules. People should not be forced to follow the rules. If you do so, the good ones will leave; the ones who follow the rules are not necessarily the best.”… but that doesn’t mean anything goes. Break rules to get a job done should be the way to go=)

 

Source: The Straits Times, 11 July 2008

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felt like GTO… but NO, i didn’t egg them on.

July 10, 2008 · Leave a Comment

Had to stop a fight today…and it isnt the first time – Same class, same boy.

 

This time’s worse. The boys actually hurled tables and chairs at each other, and the other students just stood by the side, enjoying every moment of the “entertainment” that was taking place in the classroom. Some of them even asked me to stay away so that the boys can continue fighting… and that they can continue watching.

 

Nevertheless, I attempted to stop them at every possible moment, pulling them apart and preventing them from having any eye contact… well, at least they respected me. They didn’t resist as I pulled them apart. They didn’t try to harm me as I held their arms… they didn’t hurl tables and chairs at me… they didn’t use vulgarities on me… but I gave up in the end… they just didn’t think I had any authority to punish them in any way so I got one of the students to get the operations manager to help resolve the fight. Shortly after, the OM stepped in and the boys just stopped the fight immediately. Sigh. That’s the power of a permanent teacher.

 

This evening, I told my tutee about it and he showed me a video of a school fight which he took with his phone. WTF. What’s wrong with students these days? I can understand that most of them would fear that they might get hurt should they try to stop the fight but can’t they at least seek help from teachers? Ok, they may also fear that they may get themselves into trouble for reporting to the teacher… so what else should they do – Just let their classmates fight till something really bad happens before they decide to do something?

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the weeKeNd.

July 2, 2008 · 3 Comments

Yes, it was THE weekend that I was looking forward to=)

I met up with the SMU gang from the Sino-Singapore Exchange on Saturday for the much-awaited ktv session=) We went to this Top One ktv at Bugis (opp Toast Box/Breadtalk) and we were very lucky to get a room that was reserved for a party later in the evening (hence the balloons and fancy decor)! It was freaking spacious with 3 HUGE tv screens and a smoke machine (for stage effect)! Damn cool and relatively cheaper than the major ktv chains, I think… cost us $20 nett for 4 hours (up to 6 hours I think), coupled with free-flow of drinks=) It was really fun singing with these guys and I’m looking forward to MORE! haha. In fact, I’m quite surprised that I actually didn’t feel awkward being the only NUS guy amidst the SMU dudes and babes… This ain’t the first time anyway=p I was also in the company of SMU peepz the last time I went to explore the Southern Ridges… I wonder why I’m soooo not shy but it’s a good thing and

I DON’T QUESTION GOOD THINGS;p  

On Sunday, I had a JC-class-gathering-cum-Huixin’s-Housewarming…

 

 

… and the Sino-Singapore (predominantly NUS) BBQ gathering in the later part of the night=D 

To be frank, I was actually looking forward to meeting the Sino-Singapore peepz (whom I’ve known for a couple of months) more than my dearest classmates of 7 years=( Sigh. Is it just a fleeting feeling? I shouldn’t be feeling this way, should I? Have you ever felt vaguely detached from your older friends when a new group of friends comes along?

It is plausible that I am favouring (ok, not exactly that but I can’t find a better choice of word) a new group of friends for the sake of fostering the budding friendship… whereas we tend to be more secure with our older friends.

Or could it be that I am actually preferring to commit myself more to a new group of friends? I wonder. But one thing that I’m certain of is that I feel much more uninhibited with my newer friends than with my older friends. I guess the longer you’ve been with a certain group of friends, the more you would behave in ways that are consistent with your past (for what? I’ve no idea…), and when you meet a new group of friends, it is perhaps easier for you to establish a slightly different identity for yourself? More importantly, I believe, it depends a lot on what you’ve been through with each group of friends… I’ve done stupid things with the sino-sing gang but probably not with my JC classmates. Yup, that could be it. But why not in the first place?

Nevertheless, there’s no point comparing.  Different social networks have inherently different dynamics and it would be like comparing apples with oranges

(and yes, of course apples will win hands down! haha..)

cos i don’t eat oranges. bleah.

 At the end of the day, I will treasure every single one of you. you. you. and yes, you - CG13/01=) 

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